How to Attract a Virgo Woman

Always take the lead, but don’t make the mistake of being too pushy. Because a Virgo woman tends to be quite shy and passive, you’ll be waiting forever if you hold back until she gets round to making the first move. At the same time, however, you have to be quite subtle and low-key in your seduction tactics. You’ll scare a Virgo woman away by making an obvious play for her and coming on too strong. A clever way of attracting this girl’s interest without causing her to feel threatened is to ask for her practical advice or assistance. Down to earth and logically minded, Virgo women love fixing things and find it hard to refuse a cry for help. Best hold your fire when trying to attract a Virgo woman. Reel her in slowly and gently by first cultivating her as a friend.

Look Neat, Clean and Tidy

The Virgo woman is a perfectionist - so to attract her you’ll need to appear as perfect as possible! Make a big effort to be clean, tidy and well presented. Many Virgo girls are neat freaks and will be turned off if you’re grubby, dishevelled or disorganized. Smart, well groomed and healthy is the look you’re aiming for, and be sure to pay special attention to your nails, hair and shoes. Virgo women have an all-seeing eye for detail that will pick up on every single little flaw in your appearance and note it down against you. The Virgo woman is particularly impressed by good manners and social etiquette, so always by punctual and don’t forget little touches like holding doors open for her and making sure she’s seated before you sit down. Old fashioned perhaps, but you’ll score lots of points with this girl.

Appeal to Her Dry Sense of Humor

Because the Virgo woman hates all kinds of excess and falseness, remember that less is more when you’re trying to win her heart. Avoid giving her lots of gushing compliments, which she’s likely to find shallow and insincere (and certainly don’t expect any in return). A few words of honest appreciation will suffice to let a Virgo girl know you’re interested, and although she may brusquely dismiss them with a self-deprecating comment, secretly she’ll be thrilled you find her attractive. She tends to respond well to humor, but dirty jokes and rumbustious belly laughs aren’t really her scene. Virgo women have a great sense of irony, and can be very sarcastic in a highly amusing way. Make a Virgo woman laugh by appealing to her clever dry wit, and you’ll massively boost your chances of seducing this girl.

Impress Her With Your Commonsense

No matter how you’re feeling, try to stay cool and collected and never swear. Virgo women tend to feel uncomfortable with uncontrolled outbursts and find the use of foul language offensive. Unloading your emotional baggage onto a Virgo woman you don’t know very well is a good recipe for scaring her away. She’ll be more attracted to you if you show her you have a sensible head on your shoulders and can talk about issues in a calm and logical way. Virgo females are impressed by intelligence and commonsense rather more than they are by good looks. Because this girl takes a somewhat old-fashioned approach to love, she may prefer to delay physical intimacy until she knows you reasonably well. For this reason it’s a mistake to push for any kind of sex with her on a first date.

Be Willing to Play the Waiting Game

Get your head around - but don’t be deterred by - the Virgo woman’s dispassionate attitude. For many of these girls celibacy isn’t a problem and they can manage quite well for extended periods without any romance in their lives. Regardless of how much she likes you, a Virgo woman will take a while to analyze the situation and make her mind up about whether or not to get involved. An important deciding factor is likely to be your level of financial astuteness. Material security matters a lot to a Virgo woman and to attract her, you’ll need to prove you’re solvent and are capable of spending money carefully and wisely - she hates waste of all kinds. She’ll love you all the more if you play the traditionally masculine role and always pick up the check (financial generosity may not be her strong point!).

Virgo Woman with other Zodiac Signs